CBT (A Good Pain)

CBT=Cock and Ball (s) Torture is a practice in which a mans' genitals are engaged in painful activities.  Please check the link.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cock_and_ball_torture_%28sexual_practice%29


Because I have long nails, this makes the torture all the more fun. I am able to pinch and pull the balls while stabbing the head of the penis at the same time. A lot of times I get asked "are those nails fun in the bed room"? And my reply is "but of course".  Because I am "domme" that is able to switch between being a sub, I find that this activity is really sexually satisfying to me. Although no sex is involved, the mental stimulation is greater than actually having intercourse. There are many ways to go bout performing this type of control/role playing so keep in mind that is is the woman who controls what happens, but it is the man who needs to express the ultimate goals. When meeting a sub or potential, sub the expectations must be clearly expressed by both parties and abide by. With out a guideline there is a whole lot of room for assumption, and that can be either good or really bad for both the dom/domme or sub.


To assure that this experience is pleasurable for myself, I will listen to the sub request; however, I already know what my limits are. Ladies, that is what you need to do. If you should have to google terms to find out the exact meaning i.e "roman showers", then it is in your best interest to do so. Pleasing your partner, and exploring your supremacy is the ultimate confidence sex appeal a woman can have. With out it, you should just hire a woman to come and show you how to do it. I am serious! With the expectations that this man, already likes pain, and I like to hear him scream like a little girl, I can begin the session.

Now, There are a few tools that you may want to invest in, even if you are a first timer, these things can be used for multiple functions and not limited to CBT.

1. Pin Wheel
2.Rope/Handcuffs
3.Wooden Clothes Pins
4.Blind Folds
5.Paddles
6.High Heel Shoes

These are just some of the basic things I would say the everyday Sally will need to explore CBT. I will explain. The pin wheel, is a great for senses play. You can roll it along the shaft of the balls, penis, and on the chest and back. This can also double for your pleasure, on the back, breast, and clit;)! Rope, is a must have! To bind someone down, is an erotic rush, to know that they have no control once bound down over their bodies YOU do!  Wooden clothes pens, can be applied to the entire penis and nipples, clitoris and pussy lips. This can take some getting used to, however, it can be very pleasurable. Blind folds, this goes with out saying, is an awesome sensory play tool.When used they magnify the intensity of the entire experience to heighten the senses, when applied with other methods,will generate explosive orgasms ( if that's what your goal is). Paddles, can be used like whips. When used correctly, the hits don''t really hurt ( or can if you would like) it feels like getting a massage with a kick (sting). I love these! High Heeled Shoes! No mater the make or model, every woman should own a pair or two. Even if they are for the bed room only. Nothing will turn a man on (And submit) than to see the elongated stems of a woman legs. Plus, after wearing them over time, the weight of the heels, and the height will make your legs look great and ass look fat! They also work for triple purpose, foot worship ( man crawling on the ground and sucking your heels, toes etc), ass worship ( same as foot worship), and CBT! These puppies, can trample him (walking on ) sending pain up his little spine. Trampling however should be not taking with ill regard. This will take some getting used to. Thus when mastered will commence you to the next round; breaking men the fuck down! In a good way.


As for myself when doing CBT, I try to make it as pleasurable for myself, first! And in doing so, the man will follow suit. Remember, not everything is about him! (At least in my case)  I suggest you to the same. As many variations and types of CBT, there is only one type of CBT for you to explore. The kind that YOU like;)!


So, go ahead, tie him down, put on your sexiest shoes, blind fold him, pinch, pull, him, spit on him if you like hell. I am sure when the night is over he will be your pet on a leash, crying and screaming for more CBT. Enjoy ladies...gents you need to get this done.